I'm sure there are thousands of blogs out there listing the many things their authors have to be thankful for. Some, I'm sure, are thankful for their possessions, however few or many they may be. Others may be thankful for things that are not tangible like love, happiness, and a slue of of other feelings, I'm sure. In my situation, however, giving thanks for just about anything may perhaps be more difficult than for others due to the number of downturns my life has taken over the past year. I am, however, the type of person who's every lesson has been learned the hard way, and this past year has been a very humbling experience and has brought to light the many things I do have to be thankful for.
Although you'll probably see family at the top of everyone else's "sincerely written" list, I have to say that being a part of the norm is no problem for me in this situation. I've always appreciated my family, and I've always been thankful to have one knowing there are people out there who can't say they do. It was when I left home to live life in the outside world for myself that I came to fully understand how important my family is to me, and how truly thankful I am to have them. Without the love and support they've given me over the past 23 years, I wouldn't be the man I am today. Furthermore, had they not been there for me over this past year I would be in much worse shape than I am now. To my parents, my brother, and all my relatives, a sincere thank you is the least I can offer.
To double the fun of this immensely cliche list, I would like to make friends my second bullet point. Whether we become totally different people, or just try our best to appear normal while keeping our values in line, we all change slightly when our family's not around. This "alternate lifestyle", for lack of a better description, is that which we share with our friends. When our family members just don't understand how we're feeling or why, it's our friends that we go to knowing they'll be there for us like the second family they are. To all my friends, both online and at home, thank you all for being there for me in every way possible. You guys are the best.
Family and friends. Both deserve so much thanks that in comparison nothing else even belongs on the list. There's an infinite amount of people out there who aren't as richly blessed as you are, no matter what your situation. Please, take a moment to consider the many things you have to be thankful for. With enough searching, I guarantee you'll find that you're much better off than it seems.


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