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  • Why is AT&T delaying rollout of iPhone tethering, MMS?

    by Marguerite Reardon

    Updated at 4:09 p.m. PDT with a link to a Boy Genius report and a clarification on when AT&T expects MMS and tethering service to be ready.

    iPhone users across the U.S. were disappointed Monday to learn that AT&T, the only operator in the country offering the iPhone, won't immediately support a couple of key new features in Apple's new 3.0 operating system that will be available starting next week. But AT&T says these features are coming.

    On Monday, Apple announced at its Worldwide Developers Conference in San Francisco that it plans to finally add data tethering to the iPhone, which will turn the device into a wireless modem to connect laptops to 3G networks. It also announced that the new 3.0 version of the iPhone operating system will support multimedia messaging messaging.

    These features have topped iPhone users' wish lists since the phone was launched two years ago. But millions of iPhone users in the U.S. will have to wait a little bit longer. That said, AT&T says the features are coming soon.

    "We will be offering a tethering plan and MMS for the iPhone," Mark Siegel, AT&T's spokesman, said by phone. "But we haven't announced a date."

    Siegel was short on details about when these features would be offered, which devices they would be offered on, and how much it plans to charge for the services. Siegel confirmed that the MMS functionality will be offered by the end of the summer, but he wouldn't give any indication as to when tethering will be added.

    Apple currently supports two versions of the iPhone on its network: the original iPhone, which went on sale in 2007 and operates on AT&T's 2.5G EDGE network, and the iPhone 3G, which was introduced last summer and operates on the faster 3G network.

    Starting next week, AT&T will get another version of the phone called the iPhone 3G S. This device will come in two flavors--a 16GB model that will cost $199 with a two year contract and a 32GB model that will cost $299 with a two year contract. AT&T and Apple will also continue to sell the 8GB iPhone 3G announced last year for $99 with a two year contract. Older 16GB iPhone 3Gs will be available for $149 with a two-year contract until stock of that device runs out, Siegel said.

    Siegel couldn't say whether MMS and data tethering will be available on older versions of the iPhone. But if Apple is offering the features as part of the software upgrade, and AT&T offers the service for the iPhone 3G S phones, it would make sense for the company to offer the features on all iPhones supporting the upgraded software. But Siegel couldn't say for sure if this was the case.

    While a delay of a few weeks or even a month or two might not seem like a big deal to some people, it seems strange given that AT&T already offers MMS and smartphone data tethering on several other devices. MMS is practically a standard feature on many new phones sold today. MMS messages cost 30 cents to send and receive. And MMS is included in the carrier's messaging plans, which iPhone users already subscribing to those plans are actually paying for a service they can't yet use. Those plans start at $5 a month for 200 messages, and an unlimited plan costs $20 a month.

    AT&T also already offers data tethering on several devices. In fact, AT&T's Web site lists no fewer than 11 smartphones that can be used to provide wireless Internet service to laptops. Phones that offer this functionality, include the recently launched Nokia E71m, the Samsung Propel, and the Palm Centro. AT&T also supports data tethering for BlackBerry devices, including the Curve, Bold and Pearl.

    According to AT&T's Web site, smartphone tethering plans, which offers Web connectivity for a laptop plus personal data usage for a smartphone, cost an additional $65 a month. The BlackBerry tethering plan costs $60 a month. Both services include 5GB of usage per month. Customers who exceed the allotted bucket of data usage are charged for overages on a per kilobyte basis.

    It's difficult to understand why AT&T would need additional time to offer these new features on the iPhone, since it's clear that the company already offers the services and has established rate plans for them. Siegel wasn't able to elaborate or offer any explanation as to why AT&T would need more time to activate these services.

    But I wonder if AT&T is worried about overloading its network. iPhone users download games, video and other Web data at two to four times the rate of other smatphone users, according to comScore. So if they also send mobile messages and use tethered data connections at much higher rates too, AT&T might feel some pain on its network.

    Even though AT&T has made a lot of noise lately about upgrades to its 3G network, poor network performance is one of the biggest complaints from iPhone users (myself included.) At this year's South by Southwest conference in Austin, iPhone users complained of delayed text messages, poor Web access and dropped calls.

    I'm not really sure how a few weeks or even a couple of months would help AT&T overcome this problem, but perhaps the company needs a little bit more time to prepare its network for what could be an onslaught of activity.

    The Web site Boy Genius Report referenced an anonymous source who said that AT&T must manually remove all the "Opt Out MMS codes" on each iPhone account to activate MMS. I'm not sure how true this is, since 29 other operators around the world are planning to have the MMS capability ready when the software launches.

    Regardless of the reason behind the delay, one thing is certain. AT&T isn't winning any fans among iPhone users for not making these features available when the software is released.

    Source: http://news.cnet.com/8301-13579_3-10260012-37.html

     

    This is more than an disappointment, it's an outrage. More than that, perhaps. Of all the new and wonderful features, MMS messaging is the one thing iPhone users have been dreaming about since they found out, to their indescribable disbelief, that their new and shiney smartphone actually didn't have the feature. iPhone's 3.0 OS came out last Wednesday, and knowing every detail about the new upgrade I was horrified when I got that stupid "I sent you a multimedia message. You can view my message via the web at..." message when my brother tried to send me a picture. The feature that I'd waited a year and a half for was finally available, and I still have to wait untill AT&T get's their heads out of their rears to use it! Needless to say, I'm rather upset about this whole deal. Although there are several carriers that the iPhone operates on around the world, it is an AT&T exclusive phone. If AT&T knew that it would take some time to add the feature, why could Apple not have waited until AT&T was ready? And with all the complaints AT&T users are making against poorly working features on a beautifully designed smartphone, maybe Apple should consider unlocking it's masterpiece and sharing it with the world. You can tell me I'm wrong, and you can tell me why, until you're blue in the face, but technical details aside, this is my opinion; it's a nerd vent.

    Do you own an iPhone? How do you feel about MMS (and tethering) being delayed?

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  • Which sin do you believe is the deadliest?

    "You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name." (NIV)

    "Do not misuse my name. I am the LORD your God, and I will punish anyone who misuses my name." (CEV)

    What Exodus 20:7 means by "misuse my name" includes:

    1. Breaking promises
    2. Telling lies after swearing to tell the truth
    3. Using the Lord's name as a curse word

        The definition of a promise is, "a verbal commitment by one person to another agreeing to do (or not to do) something in the future." The word "promise" is mentioned over 200 times in the bible, and every time it comes up it is in the context of a statement made before God. Say I promise my wife that I will be faithful to her for the rest of my life. When I promise that to her, what I'm really doing is telling God that I will be faithful to her. If I'm not faithful from that point forward, the statement I made before God would become untrue, and this verse says that I will not go unpunished for lying to God.

        The second point, telling lies after swearing (or promising) to tell the truth, is quite the same as the first. If you promise (swear before God) to tell the truth, and instead tell a lie, you have lied not only to the person you swore to tell the truth to, but also to God; a sin which this verse says you will also be punished for.

        As offensive as it probably should be, I don't even take notice when people say "Oh my God" or even just "God". It's when people come out and say "Jesus Christ" (or "Jesus" or "Christ" alone) that really, sincerely brings me a feeling of tremendous pain meaning both awkwardness and physical discomfort. I hate it, I despise it, and there is nothing that offends me more. I've pondered the reason for my not caring about those who say "God" verses my feelings toward those who say "Jesus" and I've come to the conclusion that "God" is far less specific than "Jesus" is. When I say "oh, god" I honestly feel I'm not taking the lords name in vain. Correct me if I'm wrong, but the word "god" is really just that; a word. When I'm talking to God I say "Father" or "Heavenly Father" or something equally as specific and/or honorable. With all the 'religious diversity' out there, "God" is just to non-specific for me and I think that's a major factor in why it doesn't strike me as offensive when people say it.

        No matter the exact meaning, this commandment has always been a favorite of mine. It really brings into perspective how serious God's rules for man are. Sure, we can all walk around saying "You're going to Hell if...." or "God will punish you for eternity if...", but this message isn't just someone saying God will or might punish you, it's God himself saying I will punish you.

    What do you think? Is taking the Lord's name in vain unforgivable?


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  • Stories from the Humidor

    A Note from an Up and Coming Cigar Aficionado
     
        Much like my 21st birthday opened the door to a new and wonderful culinary world, filled with laughter and experimentation beyond my wildest dreams, my 18th birthday was the beginning of my humidor adventures. Cigarettes are cheap (comparitively speaking), manufactured by the millions, and represent one of the most repulsive addictions mankind suffers from. Cigars have a history; they're passionately made by hand, and they're not something you'll see hanging from the lips of a redneck woman standing in the rain outside a double-wide. They stand for celebration; they stand for wealth and class; they stand for new beginnings, and happy endings. The wide world of cigars has come up through generations of families and is filled with the wonders of world culture. Since my first experience inside a real humidor some three and a half years ago, all the way up until today, I've been greatly enjoying the company that cigars bring. The people I've met, the wonderful stories I've heard, the world cultures I've become familiar with, and the wide variety of celestial tastes and feelings I've experienced have through the years brought the happiness of friendship into my life like nothing else has.
     
        A couple years back, my friend and I were at our favorite cigar shop looking for a new and adventurous cigar to taste. This particular cigar shop is owned by a family of Cuban-Americans, and the frequency of our visits had made us good friends of the family. Having returned from the back room to see our frustrated presence in the humidor, the father of the family said "Try the Kahlua. It's a real treat!" The way he said it, his frilly cuban accent struggling it's way through his bushy salt and pepper mustache, is a memory that my friend and I still chuckle about to this day.
     
        A few moments ago I enjoyed a Kahlua torpedo for the first time since that day, and it really brought me back. As I sat on my deck, slowly puffing on it's sugary and delicious torpedo-tipped end I remembered all the wonderful times I've had with friends, aquaintences, and strangers on account of my love for cigars. Camping trips, out-of-state rare cigar finds, eccentric shop owners, and deep conversations in smokey garages while watching the rain. Cigars have been a conversation piece, a pass time, and an all around element of joy in my life. My point? None really. I just sincerely enjoyed my cigar tonight, and it made me feel like dancing. But, I must admit, I'm a much better writer than I am a dancer (or so says my girlfriend), so I decided to write out my thoughts instead. Thanks for reading.

  • What do you hope for in the future?

        That's an interesting question, mainly because I've been thinking a lot about it for some time now, but also because there is no real answer. I can hope all I want, and control my actions as best I can to reach a goal I may have for my future, but anything and everything can come up between now and five seconds from now (no less ten years from now) that could either stop or hinder me from reaching my goals or further me on the path towards reaching them. But seeing as this question doesn't ask for mindful (or mindless) speculation, I'm going to move forward in explaining exactly what my hopes for the future are.
     
        My current living situation is not too far from abysmal. I've got a lot of stuff; my girlfriend has a lot of stuff; her children have a lot of stuff. Together, our stuff fills just about every nook and cranny of our 700 square feet of 18th century apartment space. With so much stuff, and so little space, there's nothing more than a narrow path to walk back and forth on in our apartment. My plans for the future include buying a house, with a yard, a garage, and a driveway, where the kids can be kids, where the headaches of parenting will lessen, if only slightly, and where mass amounts of fun and relaxation can take place. Whether it be a big house with a big lawn in the middle of nowhere or a small house with a smaller lawn in a crowded neighborhood is entirely up to what's available when my chance to buy into real estate comes to pass. With God on our side, I have no doubt that we will be taking this step sometime in the next couple of years.
     
        Proverbs 19:21 says "You can make many plans, but the Lord's purpose will prevail." I'm a firm believer in what this verse is saying, but don't think it means I don't make plans. Plans are very much a part of everyone's life here on earth, and without them life would have no real direction. My plans for the future include buying a new car, buying a house, and buying an iPhone 3GS (w00t!!!). But who knows, maybe I'll die tomorrow. Maybe I'll die before I save the changes on this post. Maybe I'm typing this out from beyond the grave. Who knows? I have the highest hopes for my future, and I will do by best to live according to those plans, but God (who also has the highest hopes for my life) may intervene as he as He sees fit no matter what it means for my plans.
     
        So there you have it. Not a major list of plans by any means, but I'm not really in a place to be making that many plans at this point. When you're face down in the dirt, your plans should first include getting up, which is what I'm working at right now. Once I get out of the mud and back on my feet, I'll start working towards a better life for my family and I.
       

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  • Some people just shouldn't blog

        I've been a dedicated Xanga blogger/reader for a long time now, and I've written/read some pretty darn good blogs. Some people are absolutely meant to blog. These people are fantastic social-style writers and although some of their stories and entries are absolutely worth publishing, most of the time the blogs are better published here on Xanga. There are, however, a few types of people who I think absolutely shouldn't have the privilege of blogging.

    #1: The Teenage Attention Psycho

        There are some bloggers here on Xanga, and elsewhere as well, who post only for controversial attention they feel they deserve. Most of the time these bloggers are teenage girls who have no friends and hate their parents. They have countless pictures of themselves, taken by themselves, usually in their room or in a bathroom. Their blog entries rarely include punctuation, except maybe a string of exclamation points or question marks, and the word "but" or the phrase, "the fact that" comes up far more often than it rightfully should.  A blog of theirs would go something like this:

    "....well i figured i would write something on here cause i haven't posted anything in well pretty much forever. as we all know life doesn't always go the way we want or plan and some people just have horrible abusive stepdads who yell when you try to see a movie because of the fact that he feels is not good for someone under 17..whats up with that?!?!?!?..but well im learning that you just have to go with the flow and live it out even if you don't want to...but some days i wonder if this is really how i want my life to go or just the fact that i can't control what happens... ill post on here again sometime.....unless i need to "stop the pain"....."

        Ok. For one, shut up. If you honestly think you're the only person on this planet who's parents could possibly be so terrible as to deny your request to see an R-rated movie, you might want to consider leaving your bedroom to venture out into the real world every now and again. For two, learn the rules of grammar before you consider writing something and putting it out in public. Finally, the reason you don't have any friends is because you assume everybody hates you. And for that, everybody does hate you. Either quit your bitchin' or just kill yourself, as you so cleverly alluded to.

    #2: The Science-positive Atheist

        I'm sure you've all come across some of these people. They're every post is a no-holds-barred blasphemy fest about how stupid people are for believing that homo-sapiens might have been created by God rather than by chance. These people post videos, blogs, and pictures that are sure to offend any and all religious people who may happen upon their site, and they join religiously entitled blogrings so that religious people will come across their site when looking for each other and end up leaving nasty comments. I tell you what, if you're doing everything you can to get yourself nasty comments from offended religious people, guess what? You'll get them. These bloggers are absolutely close-minded, but claim to have an open mind about God (only to get creationists to argue the topic with them, in all their infinite, scientologist brilliance). I'm not even sure what these people have come up with these days, but I can offer an example of the way they choose to word their comments:

    Blog: Question: If you were forced to kill someone, perhaps in order to save you own life, could you do it?

    Atheist comment: I wouldn't mind killing a monotheistic god...

       Where on earth are these people dug up? Here is a question that doesn't even have anything to do with religion or science, and you have to come out and sincerely offend a large number of the blog poster's readers!? Why? Are you such a jerk that you have to blatantly offend people just to get your fix of return offense attempts? These people certainly do not deserve the privilege of blogging, nor do they deserve the privilege of commenting.

    #3: The Christian SPAM Artist

        We've all seen it. People claiming to be Christian, claiming they're far better than you are because you're not a Christian, and leaving the same "I'm a Christian blogger who posts about God every now and again....blah blah blah" comment on every featured post, picture and video, as well as every post they can possibly get to. It's terribly annoying, and it absolutely ruins the credibility, honesty, and integrity of real Christians. I can't stand these people, and, although their intentions are good, they should definitely not get the privilege of blogging and should be banned from commenting as it is.

        There's a great deal more people out there who really aggravate me (and others as well). What do you think? What other types of people absolutely should not have the privilege to blog?

     

  • I've Been Laid Off. Now What?

    from BadWithMoney (<--that's me)

    These are terrible times. We've reached a point that, it seems, no news is good news. You'll find the word "layoffs" in the business section of just about every newspaper in every city in the United States, and I think it's safe to say that if you still have a job you should consider yourself lucky, if not blessed. But if you have been, or were to be laid off, what would your course of action be? Do you even know what needs to happen before and after you've been laid off? When my boss called me into his office and asked me to shut the door behind me, I didn't know what to think. Sure one of our facilities was closing, and a good chunk of people were being laid off, but my department wasn't even involved in this "transition", or so I thought. But when he handed me a paper that said my employment was going to be terminated, I had no idea what to say or think, and after a little research I must say I'm glad I took the time to find out exactly what was happening and what I needed to do about it.

    The first thing I learned is that employers aren't required by law to provide severance packages. This valuable information brought new meaning to my boss' words, "keep up the good work until your time here is out." Since layoffs and facility closings are signs that a company is desperately trying to save money, their keeping a close eye on the employees scheduled to receive severance packages makes a lot of sense. Why layoff an employee and give him a severance package if they can just fire them without expense instead? If you've been notified about your upcoming termination, now would not be a good time to start (or continue) robbing the office supplies cabinet. Instead, work twice as hard and prove to the company that you're worth what they'll be paying you. I also learned that withholding federal taxes from your severance package, if you're getting one, is a must if you don't want to be hurting come tax day.

    Although employers aren't required by law to provide severance packages, employers with 100 or more employees are required by the WARN Act of 1989 to to provide a sixty calendar-day advance notification of plant closings and mass layoffs. The WARN act does not, however, require employers to provide an exact date of termination to any employees laid off. I was a bit worried when I received my first "you're being laid off" letter from my boss, which said nothing about an exact date. I did, however, receive another letter about a week later which listed the exact date I was to be laid off. If you've been laid off and you don't know the exact date, try and find out. Applications for employment most often ask for your available start date, and knowing the exact date you're being cut can help you put a date on the applications you will be filling out until, and perhaps after, your time comes.

    Whether you're receiving a severance package from your employer or not, you are still entitled to unemployment benefits. However, there is most often a few weeks time between the day you file for benefits and the day the first check arrives, so file for benefits as soon as possible. And despite any stereotypes, the "long line of scumbags" at the unemployment office doesn't actually exist. Make an appointment, go in, fill out some paperwork, and your good to go. You can also apply online or over the phone. The long lines of frustratingly incompetent peoples are located at the welfare office, a place which you could, but definitely don't want to, end up in.

    Then there's the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act of 1986. Since that's a serious mouthful of words, some of which most people have never seen before, we'll call it COBRA. COBRA requires the continuation of health benefit coverage to be offered to covered employees, their spouses, their former spouses, and their dependent children when group health coverage would otherwise be lost due to a layoff. COBRA allows for coverage for up to 18 months in most cases, but if you're deemed disabled by the Social Security Administration, coverage may continue for up to 29 months. If you're divorced, coverage may continue for up to 36 months. COBRA is both simple and complex. If you try and read the entire text of the act as it was signed by President Reagan, you might pass out. If you've been laid off, all you need to know about COBRA is that unless you plan on using your health care benefits between the time you've been laid off and the time you get a new job, you should not enact COBRA right away. COBRA can be enacted retroactively within 60 days of your being laid off. That means that if you don't enact COBRA, and you break your leg a month after you've been laid off, you can choose to enact COBRA and you'll be covered. Break you leg on day 61, however, and you're out of luck.

    With every article, document, letter and blog I read about layoffs, I always came across the phrase, "Ask your HR representative about..." and have deduced that the most important thing to do when laid off is get a solid list of questions you need answered about what your layoff entails, what your getting, how it's calculated, when your being let go, etc, and find someone who can answer them. Negotiate if you can, and make sure you're getting everything you're entitled to. You're life is about to change drastically, and I'm sure you don't want to take on that challenge unprepared.

    Useful Links:

    WARN Act on Wikipedia
    Link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Worker_Adjustment_and_Retraining_Notification_Act
    Description: This link will lead you to the Wikipedia page which describes the WARN Act of 1989.

    Employee's Guide to COBRA [PDF]
    Link:
    http://www.dol.gov/ebsa/pdf/cobraemployee.pdf
    Description: This link leads to the Department of Labors brochure entitled, "An Employee's Guide to Health Benefits Under COBRA". It explains what COBRA is, how it works, and provides a solid 20 pages of information that you might need to know when being laid off.

    Economic Policy Institute
    Benefits Calculator
    Link:
    http://www.epi.org/content.cfm/datazone_uicalc_index
    Description: The purpose of this online benefits calculator is twofold. First, the calculator demonstrates the great disparities in benefit generosity from one state to the next. Second, the calculator gives a general idea of the benefits a typical part-time or full-time, full-year worker might expect to receive should he or she become unemployed.

    Career One Stop
    Service Locator
    Link:
    http://www.servicelocator.org/OWSLinks.asp
    Description: CareerOneStop.org's online service locator provides links to general information about your state's unemployment insurance program, how to file an Unemployment Initial (UI) claim online, and how to file a claim by phone.

    U.S. department of Labor
    Employment & Training Administration
    TAA & ATAA Petitions
    Link:
    http://www.doleta.gov/tradeact/petitions.cfm#1
    Description: The US Department of Labor's website provides details on the process of applying for TAA and ATAA in order to help workers successfully obtain TAA/ATAA eligibility. Trade Adjustment Assistance (TAA) and Alternative Adjustment Assistance (ATAA) help trade-affected workers who have lost their jobs as a result of increased imports or shifts in production out of the United States. TAA program services and benefits are designed to facilitate workers in getting back to work quickly.

  • Revisiting the Past

        I came across the other day about what you would say to yourself if you could go back 10 years. However, I'm going to change it up a bit, because 10 years ago, I was 12. What I'm going to do is go through and revisit all of my major mistakes, and maybe a few minor ones, and list what I would tell myself before they happened had I been given the chance.
     
    #1: Don't lie to your parents
    Accept the consequences, learn your lesson, and move on. Lying to your parents, or anyone for that matter, does not get rid of a problem for good nor does it put it off. Lying to someone about anything makes it come back exponentially worse later on. Every time you lie about a mistake, no matter how insignificant, you not only worsen the problem, but you break the trust that much more with the person your lying to. Eventually, they will find out the truth, and will also find out that you've been lying to them all along. Looking back and thinking about how many times I lied about things that absolutely shouldn't have been lied about (not that anything is worth lying about) makes me want to go back and just punch myself in the face and say, "What the hell are you thinking?" Lying also doesn't leave you better off, not even for a moment. When you lie, not only are you already guilty about what your lying about, you're now guilty about lying, and most deffinately worse for the wear having not learned a potentially valuable lesson. In hindsight, lies have been the biggest downfall of my life so far.
     
    #2: Spend time at work learning about how to do the job rather than getting to know your co-workers.
    I've been fired from more jobs than anyone I know. Not because I'm a bad worker, but because I'm too socialable, and too easily distracted. The chance to meet new people is, for me, the most awesome thing in the world. When I start a new job, it not only means I'll have money to spend, it also means I've got a load of new people to meet. When I know I'm going to be around a person for a prolonged period of time, I immediately start digging into their personality; who they are. I have the God-given gift of being able to be anyone's best friend, and in order to do that, I need to know what kind of person they are. I start a new job, and spend more time getting to know the people around me, than learning how to do the job I've been given. I've heard, "We really hate to let you go, as you're a really nice guy, but you're just not performing to the necessary level" more times than I can count. This mistake also applies at school, and especially in college. I failed out of college bad because I went to school out of state, lived in a dorm, and was more than ready to bag my first girlfriend. I spent loads of time socializing with my roommate (who happened to be my long lost twin brother) and my new found friends than I ever spent on homework, or studying. This was my downfall, and how I wasted $26,000 of my parents hard earned money.
     
    #3: Don't spend your money!!!
    It is my firm belief that I, more so than anyone, have a massive spending problem. I LOVE new stuff, and I only buy really expensive stuff, because I'm also a firm believer in the idea of "you get what you pay for." I've picked up only the most expensive hobbies (nitro RC, paintball, computer building, etc), and I've bought some pretty rediculous stuff in my lifetime as well (cell phones, video games, musical instruments, etc). I've struggled with this problem my whole life, and my current financial stand point (or lack there of) is living proof of this. Had I saved even 10% of the money I've made in my life so far, I would be living in my own house, and driving a brand new Jetta, rather than living in a low-income, ghetto apartment, barely making ends meat. Thank God my bank doesn't "return checks," or I'd probably be in jail. For this problem, I could realy use a good kick in the pants.
     
    #4: Do not associate with dependant peoples. You are neither a psychiatrist nor a bank
    As mistake #2 says, I am a very socialable person, and I enjoy being able to befriend anyone. I also love to help people who really need help, and it's this nicitie that actually draws me toward people who are totally dependant of others. In college, I searched out a girl with psychological problems that to date because I for some reason thought I was capable of helping such a person. When I found one, and dated her for an excruciatingly painful year, I finally came to the conclusion, only after she and I moved back to our respective ends of the country and were forced apart from there on, that I couldn't help her anymore. I would love to go back to before I met her, and make sure I knew that my life would be a living Hell if I were to go anywhere near her. My passion for helping people isn't limited to those with psych problems, however. After college, I got a job making more money than I had ever seen. Of course, mistake #3 kicked in, and I went out in search of people in need of financial help. People who weren't experiencing life because they couldn't afford to go out into the world and have fun. I found a few, and dragged them around with me everywhere, using up all my money keeping them happy with trips to the most expensive bowling alley in the area (because "you get what you pay for"), meals at really nice restaurants (because I love good food, and, hec, who doesn't?), and all kinds of tobacco products (hey, the man needs his fix!). I literally spent thousands of dollars just so I could hang out with a group of people I called my "friends." Real friends don't cost anything, and I now realize, only after going through the pain of it all, that these people were not my friends. They were leeches who were either too lazy, or too stupid to achieve their own independence.
     
    #5: Do NOT have sex before marriage
    I could go deep, and get real personal on this one (I am a risk taker like that), but I'm gonna spare you the details. Having sex before marriage, especially for me as a Christian, is not fun at all. The reason I did it was because I, like my parents before me, am a perfectionist, for one, and for two, I want to be the best husband I can be when the time comes. I thought being unable to perform to my wife's standards, whether she had standards or not, would be the worst feeling ever, and that doing it right would require much practice and experience. A real relationship, meaning one between a husband and wife (because relationships before that are for the most part truely meaningless), doesn't require extreme sexual prowess. Sex is something you do with the person you've promised to the rest of your life, and with when you want kids, not just something you do whenever you feel like "geting off." Too much? If so, I'm sorry. Next...
     
    #6: Do not use tobacco or alcohol outside of moderation
    I hate smoking with a passion [lights a cigarette], but for some reason I still do it. It's a social thing, really, and you already know how much I love socializing. Some of the best conversations I've been involved in, and some of the times I've laughed the hardest, have been sitting outside of work, or outside a mall, or anywhere for that matter, on a bench mingling with smokers. I light up a cigarette next to a person I've never seen before, and will probably never see again, and instantly we have something in common, and can be best friends for the two and a half minutes it takes to finish a cigarette. It's killing my lungs, and not being able to quit (even though every day I beg God to take me home me before I light up another one) is driving me up the wall. Having no support, and hanging around people who smoke is probably why I still do it, but being a strong-willed person, I can't help but wonder why I just can't kick the habit. Chewing is just gross, and heavy drinking leads to mistake #5.
     
    If you could go back and fix your mistakes, what would you fix?
    What would your life be like had you not made those mistakes?

  • Tomorrow Comes Today

    Ladies and gentlemen, users and friends, the dawning of a new age is upon us. The increasingly popular, and wildly amazing iPhone has once again one-upped itself with the coming of the iPhone 3GS. When I bought my iPhone a year and a half ago, I must admit I was a skeptic. What could a phone possibly have to offer me that I would pay $399 ($426 after taxes and fees) for it? As passive as I was about finding out, I took the risk and shelled out the cash. I would be lying if I said I wasn't excited about the purchase, I am a nerd and cool new gadgets certainly excite me, but I was a bit shaken by it. I carefully opened the box, glanced at the pamphlet inside, explored the looks of the phone, and played around with the features as best I could having just opened the box. I saw some potential, but nothing I thought could possibly better my life the same way keeping that $400 would've.
     
    A year and a half has gone by since then, and I've gotta tell you the sheer joy this device brings me on a daily basis could not possibly be paid for in dollars. I don't even want to think about what life would be like had I walked out of that AT&T store with something else. I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would need a device in my pocket that could virtually outdo my computer on just about every level. Its ease of use is indescribable, its features are literally endless, and its vast complexity does not stretch beyond practicality. All this, and it's gaining on two years of age!
     
    When I heard about iPhone 3.0, the newest version of the iPhone's operating system, I was thrilled. When I watched the two hour apple press conference on apple.com reguarding the new available features, I was nearly so bewildered that tears began to pour down my face. Miracles are happening over at Apple, and being able to take part in all this is a feeling almost as good as the lemon merangue pie at the Norske Nook (who can deny the awesomeness of 10" deep merangue, perfectly hooked and toasted over a delicious bed of sweet lemony goodness?).
     
    Norskepies
    I MUST HAVE THAT PIE!!!!
     
    Just now I watched the 15 minute video demonstration of the iPhone 3GS, and it was positively overwhelming. Every feature I have ever dreamed of since the first iPhone came on the market is now available. Multimedia messaging, video capture and editing, copy and paste, spotlight search, voice command, the list goes on. This may sound like a nerdy rant over a stupid phone coming from some geek who drools over the latest tech, and I will admit that to be partially true. However, anyone who's owned an iPhone for as long as I have, I'm sure, is as equally enthralled about this new chapter in the ever expanding story of the iPhone as I am. Seriously, do you know how awesome some lemon merangue pie would be right now? I'm actually drueling over the thought! But anyway, I posted the link to the video I'm talking about in my pulse. Check it out, and let me know if you feel the same rush of energy I did.

  • Things I'm Selling on Craigslist

    1. A 2007 Traxxas T-Maxx 2.5 w/JR Racing servos and a JR Racing XR3i radio : $300
    2. A 500GB PC/DVR w/DVD player, FM radio, Windows Media Center and iTunes : $300
    3. A 17" Gateway CRT monitor and Gateway PS2 keyboard (that's "personal system/2" not playstation 2) : $50
     
    There might be more, but I don't quite remember what else. Wish me luck!